tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3645621547266256254.post4120213512207871368..comments2023-04-03T22:21:05.407+01:00Comments on IOSWYT: CBT and I hate you's...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3645621547266256254.post-66458511523144490502014-06-19T07:53:53.003+01:002014-06-19T07:53:53.003+01:00Two things I've read that resonate with me and...Two things I've read that resonate with me and seem relevant: 1 If you want to know how you were treated at a certain age look at how you're treating people of the same age; 2. Children are emotional echo chambers, they reflect what they experience (courtesy of Stephen King). Oliver James suggests seeing a professional who deals with exploring your relationship with your mother and not just CBT. It's good advice, in my opinion. xJoannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14848163712532842129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3645621547266256254.post-30769546503936168962014-06-18T20:46:53.343+01:002014-06-18T20:46:53.343+01:00Sorry to be one of those 'yeah we have this is...Sorry to be one of those 'yeah we have this issue too' women. But seriously you could be describing my daughter here. A lot of the anger (well I'm hoping anyway) comes from learning to find their own way in the world. Some of it is because they realise we aren't the perfect mothers they once thought we were but I think it's ok for her to test it out on me and figure it all out knowing I'll be there regardless. We all mess our kids up in our own way, often without trying, you won't avoid that. The main thing though is that we are aware, awareness is everything and time obvs...time for them to grow out of being little shits that is!!Kaz Bubba Babblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06336404806921896895noreply@blogger.com